The psychology behind BDSM. Why does a person feel comfortable being dominated or humiliated?
How come someone like paypig wants to act and do anything to make his or her stupid or Stupid please financially?
I regularly receive messages from people (mainly subs and slaves) who (for example, because of religion, upbringing or other environmental influences) feel burdened, guilty or weird because they get sexually aroused by being dominated - or even outright humiliated - by a Dom(me).
Indeed, it happens regularly that someone gives me a tribute crosses over to present his or her problem to me and then blocs me out of shame, regret or other qualms of conscience.
A great pity, because the very answer I wanted to give him or her could have provided a lot of clarity.
The psychology behind BDSM
Money slaves, sissies, doggies, cuckolds, footlovers, etc. subs and slaves come in all shapes and sizes and no sub or slave should be ashamed of his or her sexual preference. The fact that you may not want to advertise it should have nothing to do with embarrassment but everything to do with privacy.
Although as a Mistress I am known to be strict and sometimes even ruthless, I am also a Mistress who treats her subs and slaves accordingly. Some sub just need a stricter approach than others.
This has everything to do with the psychology behind BDSM. Every sub or slave has a different background and should therefore be treated differently.
Whereas some subs or slaves are very well-behaved and obedient, others are downright bratty and deliberately push the limits. The reason they are how they are always has a cause that needs to be taken into account.
This is exactly why I send each potential (money) slave a questionnaire as an introduction to see which treatment is right for him or her.
Finding out the cause of BDSM feelings
Are you attracted to BDSM and would like to know where this need comes from, would you like to know what causes your particular kink or fetish or would you like to discuss other feelings regarding your preferences with me then please >HERE request a chat with me.
BDSM questionnaire
You can also come to me with other BDSM-related questions. About yourself, about your Dom, about your sub, etc. Clarity in your own psyche (or that of your BDSM partner) ultimately ensures more pleasure. Whether this is mainly mental or physical, that is ultimately what BDSM is all about.
